I am not saying this to be bias and all. I would just like to clarify to all readers that not all fishes in the sea are the same and same it is with men. Entering on a third party +Relationship is not a mindless act. Again, I am implying that +Cheating is not an immoral act, I am just saying that a person +Cheats because he has found reasons to accommodate the temptation standing or knocking at the door. And it applies to all gender - men, women and even the third sex. I believe the following are some of it:
1. Curiosity
The most complicated and fragile organ of our body is mostly responsible for such an act to happen - the Brain. Do you still remember the feeling when we were still at a very young age that our parents would tell us "Don't do that!" but we would still do so? The feeling resulted by "What if's" mostly leads to confusion because the person has not been on that situation. And since the brain has no record of that experience, one's subconscious slowly suggests to a person that says "Go and get inside it so that I can have a record of what's inside of that". And even though a person knows the act is wrong, still he/she goes on with it.
2. Pride/Ego/Value
I think all of us want to feel +Loved and being being valued. And for some, they take +Pride of having more of what others have. There are also those who feel more valued when more than one wanting and needing their +LOVE and attention. Self-value is a crucial thing for us. Losing it would be depressing and could lead to loneliness but wanting more of it could mean trouble and hurting other people. But sometimes there are just those people who wants something already with value. So they try to snatch other people's partner so that they satisfy their self-value, pride and ego.
3. Dumb & Soft-hearted
I know some of you may not believe this but I say to you, these people sometimes commits this act because they cannot push themselves into breaking up face to face with their partner. They don't have the courage to go through the slow process of talking 1 on 1, delivering each other's speech and parting words while seeing their partner cry and shed a lot of tears. Some people just don't want to feel that kind of stress. So, they'd rather be caught going out with another partner and break up in just a few minutes or seconds rather than suffering the 1 on 1 face to face break up.
So you see, every act has its reasons. So the act of +Cheating is not a mindless act. It is backed up with certain circumstances or situations depending on the couples' effort on their relationship. Cause and Effect.
But mostly it's just uncontrollable +lust.
+Cheating is a very immoral act I say to you but you could learn a lot of lessons whether if you cheat or have been cheated on. Try to evaluate yourself and ask - "Why did he/she cheat on me?". Just remember to always look at the brighter side of everything.
What's important is you should always be open to your partner and talk about everything.
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